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		<title>By: moses</title>
		<link>http://zenhabits.net/2007/10/eight-keys-to-a-happier-marriage/#comment-72043</link>
		<dc:creator>moses</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2009 08:49:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>keep up</description>
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		<title>By: DD</title>
		<link>http://zenhabits.net/2007/10/eight-keys-to-a-happier-marriage/#comment-64643</link>
		<dc:creator>DD</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Mar 2009 09:20:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I want to argue on the volunerability part. I rather say it is better to save some space for yourself. people are selfish by nature and if you let them to control your moods, you will end up with frustrations and dissatisfaction with your marraige. so it will be better if you have an idependence on yourself and then you wll have a power to flourish interdependece. even you will have the will to tolerate things - which a very important thing in sustaining your marriage. If you lower your expectation from your spouse, you can build agreement, respect and stability. So try to have a control on yourself than being volunerable to your lover or spouse.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I want to argue on the volunerability part. I rather say it is better to save some space for yourself. people are selfish by nature and if you let them to control your moods, you will end up with frustrations and dissatisfaction with your marraige. so it will be better if you have an idependence on yourself and then you wll have a power to flourish interdependece. even you will have the will to tolerate things &#8211; which a very important thing in sustaining your marriage. If you lower your expectation from your spouse, you can build agreement, respect and stability. So try to have a control on yourself than being volunerable to your lover or spouse.</p>
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		<title>By: abdala soliman abdala hamdy arafat</title>
		<link>http://zenhabits.net/2007/10/eight-keys-to-a-happier-marriage/#comment-64608</link>
		<dc:creator>abdala soliman abdala hamdy arafat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Mar 2009 16:10:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Are interested in the topic of marriage and the social harmony of the composition of families suitable for human life to His Excellency the humanitarian community</description>
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		<title>By: 10 Ways To Improve Your Life Starting Today &#124; My Super-Charged Life</title>
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		<dc:creator>10 Ways To Improve Your Life Starting Today &#124; My Super-Charged Life</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 12 Sep 2008 13:11:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Anna</title>
		<link>http://zenhabits.net/2007/10/eight-keys-to-a-happier-marriage/#comment-36234</link>
		<dc:creator>Anna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 21 May 2008 09:09:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One good technick for happier marriage is to be a blame-free Zone.An interesting thing happens when you blame your spouse. You actually get more of the very behavior that you say you dislike. When you blame my partner what does she/he naturally do? She/he blames you back! You see her as the problem, and she sees you the same way. There are many couples blaming each other and feeling justified in doing it. Sadly, millions feel that being “right” is more important than the health of their relationship. Blaming your spouse has never worked and never will. There are certainly times that you can be angry with your spouse, but carrying around blame and resentment will kill your chances for long-term success.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One good technick for happier marriage is to be a blame-free Zone.An interesting thing happens when you blame your spouse. You actually get more of the very behavior that you say you dislike. When you blame my partner what does she/he naturally do? She/he blames you back! You see her as the problem, and she sees you the same way. There are many couples blaming each other and feeling justified in doing it. Sadly, millions feel that being “right” is more important than the health of their relationship. Blaming your spouse has never worked and never will. There are certainly times that you can be angry with your spouse, but carrying around blame and resentment will kill your chances for long-term success.</p>
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		<title>By: Family and Alcoholism</title>
		<link>http://zenhabits.net/2007/10/eight-keys-to-a-happier-marriage/#comment-35976</link>
		<dc:creator>Family and Alcoholism</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 May 2008 01:00:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Amoxicillan &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Eight Keys to a Happier Marriage</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amoxicillan &#187; Blog Archive &#187; Eight Keys to a Happier Marriage</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 May 2008 12:59:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] that have helped me in my years of marriage to what I feel is a very strong and happy relationship.read more &#124; digg [...]</description>
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		<title>By: A Long Long Road &#187; 100 Resources To Improve Your Career, Relationships And Money</title>
		<link>http://zenhabits.net/2007/10/eight-keys-to-a-happier-marriage/#comment-18992</link>
		<dc:creator>A Long Long Road &#187; 100 Resources To Improve Your Career, Relationships And Money</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 22 Nov 2007 15:31:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: A Long Long Road &#187; The Art To Answering Women&#8217;s Questions</title>
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		<dc:creator>A Long Long Road &#187; The Art To Answering Women&#8217;s Questions</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 13 Nov 2007 14:17:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] 8 Keys to a Happier Marriage - ZenHabits  Read More7 Tips To Increase Your Reading EffectivenessCan A Salesman Be 100% Honest And Be Successful?Should You Change Your Job For A HUGE Increment7 Tips To Get Out Of Credit Card DebtsHow To Read And Remember What You Had LearntThese articles are written for you. If you find them useful, feel free to subscribe for regular updates as new articles are posted. It&#039;s FREE. :)  Comments&#187; [...]</description>
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		<title>By: Geri tekstai iš gerų žmonių (Spalio 29 d.) at geriau negu vakar, blogiau negu rytoj.</title>
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		<dc:creator>Geri tekstai iš gerų žmonių (Spalio 29 d.) at geriau negu vakar, blogiau negu rytoj.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 29 Oct 2007 15:56:57 +0000</pubDate>
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