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		<title>By: İys Türkiye</title>
		<link>http://zenhabits.net/2009/04/are-these-three-words-ruining-your-life/#comment-77820</link>
		<dc:creator>İys Türkiye</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 08:01:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Jonathan,

If we don’t know what we really want in our life, we will be sleepwalking in our lifetime and wasting time. If we don’t know what we want, we need to really think hard about it and find it.

İys Türkiye</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Jonathan,</p>
<p>If we don’t know what we really want in our life, we will be sleepwalking in our lifetime and wasting time. If we don’t know what we want, we need to really think hard about it and find it.</p>
<p>İys Türkiye</p>
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		<title>By: Prli Do Follow list - Google Fan Webmaster Forum</title>
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		<dc:creator>Prli Do Follow list - Google Fan Webmaster Forum</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Jul 2009 10:41:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: manyak</title>
		<link>http://zenhabits.net/2009/04/are-these-three-words-ruining-your-life/#comment-76560</link>
		<dc:creator>manyak</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Jun 2009 18:36:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thank you so much for a great christmas present, Leo :) 
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you so much for a great christmas present, Leo :)<br />
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		<title>By: Swas</title>
		<link>http://zenhabits.net/2009/04/are-these-three-words-ruining-your-life/#comment-73679</link>
		<dc:creator>Swas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 11 Jun 2009 04:43:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If you &quot;don&#039;t know&quot; about something, doesn&#039;t mean you do not try to look for the answer. Just to be a better person in responding people who want to communicate to you by minimizing saying &quot;I don&#039;t know&quot;.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you &#8220;don&#8217;t know&#8221; about something, doesn&#8217;t mean you do not try to look for the answer. Just to be a better person in responding people who want to communicate to you by minimizing saying &#8220;I don&#8217;t know&#8221;.</p>
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		<title>By: Rudi from colostrum portal</title>
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		<dc:creator>Rudi from colostrum portal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jun 2009 06:13:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>“I don’t know” is simple to say to offer a solution requires many more. You must count even on consequences and this is simple not always for everyone to bear.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“I don’t know” is simple to say to offer a solution requires many more. You must count even on consequences and this is simple not always for everyone to bear.</p>
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		<dc:creator>Thoughts for Today, Borrowed from Yesterday &#124; Primary Dance a la Web 2.0?</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Jun 2009 07:25:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: krissy knox</title>
		<link>http://zenhabits.net/2009/04/are-these-three-words-ruining-your-life/#comment-72030</link>
		<dc:creator>krissy knox</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 May 2009 06:17:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Brilliant post, Jonathan. I deal with several people in my life who reply &quot;I don&#039;t know&quot; to almost everything.  They merely need to ask themselves questions as you stated, think these through, choose an answer, and then do the action to carry their decision out.  Here is what I don&#039;t understand, however.  What makes someone answer &quot;I don&#039;t know&quot; in the first place?  Are they truly void of the ability to have normal thought processes?  Or are they merely not making decisions bc they fear failure and / or success if they do make a decision and succeed, then have to work for something?  Perhaps the answer doesn&#039;t matter.  I am now thinking the answer is the latter, which is a releif.  Not having the ability to think, not really being able &quot;to know,&quot; is a hopeless thing.  An attitude problem can be overcome, and new ways of thinking can be learned if they are practiced.  I&#039;m relieved that there&#039;s lots of hope for those I know, and I&#039;m going to show them this post.  Maybe just say, &quot;Hey, look what I found, it&#039;s pretty cool, want to read it too.&quot;  I know it is hard to make decisions, to think and act fearlessly, to go for it!  I used to hold back too.  But now is the appointed time for change.  May each of us be willing this day to begin on the journey to fearlessly make the changes we need to in this life.  Thanks for writing the post!

krissy knox :)
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brilliant post, Jonathan. I deal with several people in my life who reply &#8220;I don&#8217;t know&#8221; to almost everything.  They merely need to ask themselves questions as you stated, think these through, choose an answer, and then do the action to carry their decision out.  Here is what I don&#8217;t understand, however.  What makes someone answer &#8220;I don&#8217;t know&#8221; in the first place?  Are they truly void of the ability to have normal thought processes?  Or are they merely not making decisions bc they fear failure and / or success if they do make a decision and succeed, then have to work for something?  Perhaps the answer doesn&#8217;t matter.  I am now thinking the answer is the latter, which is a releif.  Not having the ability to think, not really being able &#8220;to know,&#8221; is a hopeless thing.  An attitude problem can be overcome, and new ways of thinking can be learned if they are practiced.  I&#8217;m relieved that there&#8217;s lots of hope for those I know, and I&#8217;m going to show them this post.  Maybe just say, &#8220;Hey, look what I found, it&#8217;s pretty cool, want to read it too.&#8221;  I know it is hard to make decisions, to think and act fearlessly, to go for it!  I used to hold back too.  But now is the appointed time for change.  May each of us be willing this day to begin on the journey to fearlessly make the changes we need to in this life.  Thanks for writing the post!</p>
<p>krissy knox :)<br />
follow me on twitter<br />
<a href="http://twitter.com/iamkrissy" >http://twitter.com/iamkrissy</a><br />
@iamkrissy</p>
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		<title>By: Shadow</title>
		<link>http://zenhabits.net/2009/04/are-these-three-words-ruining-your-life/#comment-71671</link>
		<dc:creator>Shadow</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 May 2009 17:04:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve learned a lot from this article and from your responses to it.  Thank you all.  I would like to add that there are some folks out there who seriously have no idea; call them unaware, &quot;asleep,&quot; or what you will.  Sometimes we do get stuck in life and really &quot;do not know&quot; how to go about something.  I call this time &quot;sleeping.&quot;  When that same person becomes aware of their surroundings and life, I call that &quot;a time of awakening.&quot;  I&#039;m sure this can apply to many, &quot;I don&#039;t know&quot;  </description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve learned a lot from this article and from your responses to it.  Thank you all.  I would like to add that there are some folks out there who seriously have no idea; call them unaware, &#8220;asleep,&#8221; or what you will.  Sometimes we do get stuck in life and really &#8220;do not know&#8221; how to go about something.  I call this time &#8220;sleeping.&#8221;  When that same person becomes aware of their surroundings and life, I call that &#8220;a time of awakening.&#8221;  I&#8217;m sure this can apply to many, &#8220;I don&#8217;t know&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Yan</title>
		<link>http://zenhabits.net/2009/04/are-these-three-words-ruining-your-life/#comment-71631</link>
		<dc:creator>Yan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 25 May 2009 08:12:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have the experience when I said the three stupid words among friends or strangers. It was a bad time for a undependent girl to make dicision.But it&#039;s really necessary to stop using them and develop a new habit for a better life. +U+U!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have the experience when I said the three stupid words among friends or strangers. It was a bad time for a undependent girl to make dicision.But it&#8217;s really necessary to stop using them and develop a new habit for a better life. +U+U!</p>
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		<title>By: I Don&#8217;t Know is Never the Answer &#171; Life Ownage</title>
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		<dc:creator>I Don&#8217;t Know is Never the Answer &#171; Life Ownage</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 17 May 2009 20:27:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Mead wrote a great article on Zen Habits about these three words that could be messing up things your life: I don&#8217;t know. I&#8217;ve definitely used this [...]</description>
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