Keeping a stress-free, clean house

Yesterday I cleaned my house a little, tidying up, cleaning the bathroom a little, cleaning the kitchen, and generally making the place look nice.
It is simply beautiful. There is a tremendous pleasure I get in being able to relax in a clean house.
Of course, with six kids, it never lasts long, but there are things I can do to keep it generally clean and tidy.
Here are the habits I will try to maintain to keep a stress-free house:
1. Never leave dishes in the sink. Or counter. Clean up any messes in the kitchen after I’m done. Wipe the counters, keep the sink clean.
2. Tidy the bathroom as I go. After I use the bathroom, clean the sink, the toilet, spray down the shower, real quick. It only takes a couple of minutes, and the joy of a clean bathroom is unmatched.
3. Pick up as I go. There are little things the kids leave around the house. I’ll just pick them up throughout the day, or keep a basket for their stuff and just dump them in there, for them to put away later.
4. Never leave clothes out. I have a tendency not to hang my once-used but still clean clothes in my bedroom, leaving them out to clutter the place up. No more. They either go in the dirty clothes, or they get hung in the closet.
5. Take the trash out every day. It’s cleaner, and even if the trash isn’t quite full, this is a good habit.
6. Tidy up before I leave the house. It’s wonderful to come home to a clean house. Just pick up a little before I leave.
7. Make my bed in the morning. I’ll do this either before or after I shower. I love a made bed.
8. Tidy up before I go to bed. Waking up to a dirty house is stressful. Waking up to a clean house is an incredible way to start the day.
9. Don’t let clutter pile up. There’s a place in the kitchen where we pile books and papers. That needs to go. Piles are stressful. I will clear this counter daily, along with the inbox we have for all incoming papers.
10. Get rid of the papers on the fridge. I can pretty much put all of that info on our calendar. They leave a very cluttered appearance.
11. Teach the kids to put their stuff away. By far the greatest source of stress and messiness. This will also be the most difficult task, and I don’t know if it can ever be accomplished. But it’s worth a try.
See also:
- Are Your Days Crazy? Take Control
- Edit Your Life Part 1: Commitments
- Edit Your Life Part 2: Your Rooms
- Develop Clean House Habits One at a Time
- How NOT To Multi-task: Work Simpler and Saner
- Slow Down to Enjoy Life
- Zen Mind: How to Declutter
- Posted on 9 February 2007 in Productivity & Organization |
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Comments (13)
TZ Says:
December 19th, 2006, 15:35 pm
I came to your site via your comment on the Get Rich Slowly blog. Your site is awesome and I’m delighted to see someone else doing the “keeping a stress-free, clean house” routine. I too like a clean house and I don’t mind doing the cleaning. I practice EVERYTHING that you say, except for making the beds (I make them on weekends), but maybe I’ll find the inspiration to do them every day, why not? My house isn’t spotless, but anyone can drop by any day and it’s not messy or cluttered. Being clutter-free (i.e., no excessive ornaments on tables) makes cleaning a snap and it doesn’t feel like a dreadful chore. I was commenting to my husband about the positive energy that flows in a house when it’s clutter-free. He’s promised to do his share (garage and basement) of decluttering in January. If you can write a post about that, it would be greatly appreciated!
Leo Babauta Says:
January 9th, 2007, 23:55 pm
tz … thanks for the comment and sorry it took me so long to respond. I was kinda on vacation. Great comment, and I will get to a decluttering post soon! Thanks for the suggestion.
Arne Jenssen Says:
May 18th, 2007, 6:07 am
Thanks for many nice tips.
Although a made bed looks nice, it is healthier to keep it unmade. Leaving a bed unmade during the day can remove moisture from the sheets and mattress so the mites will dehydrate and eventually die.
For more details see the article http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/health/4181629.stm
J.B. Says:
June 1st, 2007, 19:51 pm
Hi Leo,
Just curious about “clean as you go” … did you by any chance run across Flylady.net? This sounds a lot like her philosophy, especially the kitchen sink and bathroom strategies.
I kind of do this in the kitchen, I could do better, but I have a real block about the daily bathroom cleaning. And no, my bathroom is not clean, so you’d think I’d try it!
Leo Says:
June 2nd, 2007, 7:47 am
Hi J.B. … actually, as I’ve said elsewhere on this site, I’m a big fan of the Fly Lady! She’s an inspiration to me. I was into simplifying and routines long before I found her site, but she’s got a lot of great implementation ideas and she’s extremely inspirational. I’ve linked to her once or twice and have meant to do an article on the site.
Peter Says:
July 29th, 2007, 4:35 am
H Leo,
great suggestions, but can you give us more detail about your cleaning the bathroom habit? I can’t imagine cleaning the toilet everytime I use it (several times a day) or scrubbing the bathroom sink after washing my hands (loads of times a day).
Leo Says:
July 29th, 2007, 16:52 pm
Hi Peter … excellent question. I should have clarified this.
I think it makes sense to do these things once a day (perhaps in the morning, when you get ready) and then other times in the day if the sink or toilet look dirty. So on most days, you might just do one quick cleaning, but there may be other days when you do it twice, for example.
Hope that helps! Of course, it really depends on your needs, so feel free to experiment.
China Katsui Says:
August 29th, 2007, 10:05 am
Thank you Leo for all your tips!!
I’ve been trying to sell them to my man, but he wouldn’t buy them.Therefore I’ve become laid back on the tidy dept.Living in Spain that’s quite odd,it’s almost an obsesive culture for cleaning and tiding up.
Surprisingly he’s send me this article,blog…few days ago!!!
I realize now, that it’s more effective when someone else tells him, and the timing is good for him to digest it!
Genesis Says:
December 18th, 2007, 22:33 pm
Well, I´m impressed. If you can keep your place tidy with six kids, you´d think I could manage with just two . . . one of whom is not yet walking, but is very good at throwing stuff on the floor.
I really enjoy your blog, though I only recently started reading it. It´s going to take me forever to read through the archives! (especially if I stop to clean).
Crystal Says:
January 9th, 2008, 18:47 pm
Hi Leo:
I just wondered if you’d marry me? LOL Kidding, I know you’re happily married! I do really enjoy your site/blog though.
I’ve been to Guam, stayed over on the air base enroute to Saipan, but coming back, was stranded on Guam waiting for two weeks for a flight to Hawaii. Each day I watched the sun rise and set. Once in a while, when we get a warm evening here in VA with lots of pretty stars, I can close my eyes and pretend I’m walking under a coconut tree on the base :-) It was beautiful there.
When I couldn’t get a flight back, I had the irrational thought that I might just find a job and stay :-). I kinda wish I had!
Blessings,
Crystal
Taylor Says:
March 24th, 2008, 0:57 am
I need a little help. I want to clean my house all the time and tidy up but my mom and grandmother who lives with us smokes. They smoke a lot so smoking outside isnt an option. I just want to leave in a clean environment and be able to go places w.o smelling like smoke. Any opinions?
Leo Says:
March 25th, 2008, 7:33 am
@Taylor: I can’t think of any options that would allow them to smoke inside and still leave you and your house not smelling like smoke. I would talk to them about smoking outside, even if it doesn’t seem like an option.
Sid Savara Says:
September 22nd, 2008, 18:51 pm
Ok, I am very late reading this, but I love it. I do the same thing. I hate any type of clutter, and it distracts me to no end. I constantly keep my room and bathroom clean (minus the cleaning the toilet every time I use it!)
I also don’t like anything on countertops, dressers, desks, even on my bathroom counter - I put everything under the sink. I love clean, unculttered, and totally empty free of distractions.
Funny story, in the past my girlfriend got upset at me for putting her picture away. I told her it was distracting. She asked me why, I told her because everytime I saw it, I thought about her and couldn’t concentrate.
I thought it was a good answer. Apparently not. My wishes were unceremoniously pushed aside, and her photo was brought out of the dresser drawer I had neatly tucked it away in, back onto the dresser, where it sat - all by itself, the only item on any surface in my room aside from my laptop and keyboard (in a keyboard tray - of course).
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